Last night I posted a status about being disgusted with the image and impression women have on men because of their actions. I'm going to get a little more into detail on my thoughts. However, this time I am going to be explaining things from both perspectives. I may say some things that come across as offensive to people, but that is not my intentions and I apologize in advance.
So, let's dive right on into this. One thing I've learned in life is that a woman's heart is the most fragile thing placed in a man's hand. The problem is her heart can also be the thing the man is least careful with. I have been guilty of this in my past, but the lesson has been learned. A woman's heart should be treated with care. Her mind should be treated with care. HER BODY SHOULD BE TREATED WITH CARE! Social media, our society, and our culture has instilled a total disregard for those things in us. That leaves me no choice but to ask, what have we done to women? The answer is simple.
Guys have basically shown that they want nothing to do with them if women don't open their legs or get sexual in any way. Or, they constantly badger them until the girl labels them a creeper, etc. Guys it's simple, if she doesn't reply then she's apparently not interested. What we tend to forget is usually a girl has already had a run in with a jerk that treated her that way and has been hurt. Like I said, there hearts aren't something to just play with.
In my opinion, it's time men grow a set and be men. Don't be a little boy trying to play house or get in her pants because society tells you that you're a nobody if you're not sexually active. Treat her like she should be treated...WITH RESPECT! Take her on dates, do special things for her without expecting any reciprocation in physical form. Make her feel important and not like a piece of meat or someone you can just talk down to. Don't take what you have for granted. From personal experience, I can tell you taking something for granted can possibly cost you the best girl that has ever walked into your life. That is all, guys. Maybe we can all pick up on this and change the way that women see men.
Now to the women. First off, I apologize for every man that has ever hurt you, constantly bothered you, or made you feel degraded in any way. Secondly, I understand men have done some damage, but let's face it....nobody's perfect. You become just as guilty as the men wanting nothing but your body by posting pictures that show tons of skin on social media sites, dressing inappropriately in public, or acting in any way to give yourself that image. If you want a man that treats you with respect, start by respecting yourself. The way you carry yourself speaks volumes. But, that goes with saying that some guys don't care whether you're the most innocent person or the most promiscuous...just avoid those jerks.
Listen ladies, you're all beautiful in your own special way. I believe in guarding your heart to the fullest. But, building a wall that's so high nobody can get in is not the right way to approach it. Build that wall so that only someone special and worth the time can come in. If you strictly date guys based on their looks or possessions without thoroughly examining his heart, mind, and even spirituality, then chances are you're making a mistake. You want a guy to treat your heart with care? Find one that you will treat his heart with care. Guys may mistreat women more often, but women are just as guilty at times.
Before I'm done, some things need to be summed up. Guys, quit hiding behind computers or cell trying to just hook up with girls. They're worth way more than that. Be a man, take her out on a date, or just kick it with her. Oh yeah, don't expect her to open her legs just because she agreed to hang out with you! Make her feel beautiful and respected for who she is. Not what's in her pants.
And, my final word to the ladies. You want a respectful, decent, honest guy? They're not too hard to find. These social media sites pretty much show you what kind of people you're talking to or whatever. If you notice he's a creeper...stay away. If you notice he's a good dude that has shown interest, maybe you should give a chance. Don't set impossible standards based on materialistic things or build your walls so high that nobody will ever get to them. Just know, there's probably just as many guys that have been hurt just like you have.
So, to answer the question "What have we done?" We have hurt each other so much that we have become too careless or too careful about our feelings as well as other's. Life's meant to be lived to the fullest and shared with the most special people. Those people are out there. Do the right things and they will come to you or you will find them. :)
So, let's dive right on into this. One thing I've learned in life is that a woman's heart is the most fragile thing placed in a man's hand. The problem is her heart can also be the thing the man is least careful with. I have been guilty of this in my past, but the lesson has been learned. A woman's heart should be treated with care. Her mind should be treated with care. HER BODY SHOULD BE TREATED WITH CARE! Social media, our society, and our culture has instilled a total disregard for those things in us. That leaves me no choice but to ask, what have we done to women? The answer is simple.
Guys have basically shown that they want nothing to do with them if women don't open their legs or get sexual in any way. Or, they constantly badger them until the girl labels them a creeper, etc. Guys it's simple, if she doesn't reply then she's apparently not interested. What we tend to forget is usually a girl has already had a run in with a jerk that treated her that way and has been hurt. Like I said, there hearts aren't something to just play with.
In my opinion, it's time men grow a set and be men. Don't be a little boy trying to play house or get in her pants because society tells you that you're a nobody if you're not sexually active. Treat her like she should be treated...WITH RESPECT! Take her on dates, do special things for her without expecting any reciprocation in physical form. Make her feel important and not like a piece of meat or someone you can just talk down to. Don't take what you have for granted. From personal experience, I can tell you taking something for granted can possibly cost you the best girl that has ever walked into your life. That is all, guys. Maybe we can all pick up on this and change the way that women see men.
Now to the women. First off, I apologize for every man that has ever hurt you, constantly bothered you, or made you feel degraded in any way. Secondly, I understand men have done some damage, but let's face it....nobody's perfect. You become just as guilty as the men wanting nothing but your body by posting pictures that show tons of skin on social media sites, dressing inappropriately in public, or acting in any way to give yourself that image. If you want a man that treats you with respect, start by respecting yourself. The way you carry yourself speaks volumes. But, that goes with saying that some guys don't care whether you're the most innocent person or the most promiscuous...just avoid those jerks.
Listen ladies, you're all beautiful in your own special way. I believe in guarding your heart to the fullest. But, building a wall that's so high nobody can get in is not the right way to approach it. Build that wall so that only someone special and worth the time can come in. If you strictly date guys based on their looks or possessions without thoroughly examining his heart, mind, and even spirituality, then chances are you're making a mistake. You want a guy to treat your heart with care? Find one that you will treat his heart with care. Guys may mistreat women more often, but women are just as guilty at times.
Before I'm done, some things need to be summed up. Guys, quit hiding behind computers or cell trying to just hook up with girls. They're worth way more than that. Be a man, take her out on a date, or just kick it with her. Oh yeah, don't expect her to open her legs just because she agreed to hang out with you! Make her feel beautiful and respected for who she is. Not what's in her pants.
And, my final word to the ladies. You want a respectful, decent, honest guy? They're not too hard to find. These social media sites pretty much show you what kind of people you're talking to or whatever. If you notice he's a creeper...stay away. If you notice he's a good dude that has shown interest, maybe you should give a chance. Don't set impossible standards based on materialistic things or build your walls so high that nobody will ever get to them. Just know, there's probably just as many guys that have been hurt just like you have.
So, to answer the question "What have we done?" We have hurt each other so much that we have become too careless or too careful about our feelings as well as other's. Life's meant to be lived to the fullest and shared with the most special people. Those people are out there. Do the right things and they will come to you or you will find them. :)
